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Daniel J. Siegel, MD.

Anxiety speeds up your nervous system—slow breathing brings it down.
Try: In for 4 seconds, hold 2, out for 6.

Touch a cold object, splash cool water, or hold something frozen.
This can calm the fight-or-flight response.

Say to yourself:
“I’m feeling anxious. My body is reacting. I am safe.”
Labeling reduces intensity.

To pull your mind out of spiraling thoughts:

Inhale 4 → hold 4 → exhale 4 → hold 4.
Used by athletes and first responders.

Anxiety increases when your body feels disorganized or overtired.
Small routines (wake time, wind-down ritual) help.
Norman Doidge, MD
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