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"The brain is shaped by repeated experience."


Daniel J. Siegel, MD.

Skills to help decrease anxiety.

Deep, Slow Breathing

Name What’s Happening

Deep, Slow Breathing

Anxiety speeds up your nervous system—slow breathing brings it down.
Try: In for 4 seconds, hold 2, out for 6.

Cold Sensation Reset

Name What’s Happening

Deep, Slow Breathing

Touch a cold object, splash cool water, or hold something frozen.
This can calm the fight-or-flight response.

Name What’s Happening

Name What’s Happening

Name What’s Happening

Say to yourself:
“I’m feeling anxious. My body is reacting. I am safe.”
Labeling reduces intensity.

Grounding Techniques

Healthy Sleep + Routines

Name What’s Happening

To pull your mind out of spiraling thoughts:

  • 5–4–3–2–1 method:
    5 things you see, 4 you feel, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste.
  • Press your feet into the floor.
  • Hold an object and describe it in detail.

Box Breathing

Healthy Sleep + Routines

Healthy Sleep + Routines

Inhale 4 → hold 4 → exhale 4 → hold 4.
Used by athletes and first responders.

Healthy Sleep + Routines

Healthy Sleep + Routines

Healthy Sleep + Routines

Anxiety increases when your body feels disorganized or overtired.
Small routines (wake time, wind-down ritual) help.

“Practice doesn’t just make perfect. Practice rewires the brain. The brain changes itself through repeated experience.”


Norman Doidge, MD

Free Resources to Download

Some of these resources are mentioned in the book. I hope these are helpful in your healing journey. 

Attachment-Styles-Romantic-Relationships (pdf)

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Boundaries-psychoeducation-printout (pdf)

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Boundary-types (pdf)

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Setting-boundaries (pdf)

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What is Codependence - CoDA.org (pdf)

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Cognitive-Distortions-Handout (pdf)

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Coping Skills Colored copy (pdf)

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I-Feel-Statements-Worksheet (pdf)

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Managing ADHD (pdf)

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Negative_Thoughts_Trigger_Negative_Feelings (pdf)

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Perfectionism (pdf)

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Power and control wheel (pdf)

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Relationship Specturm loveisrespect.org (png)

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NICABM-Shame versus Guilt (pdf)

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NICABM+InfoG-Trauma-and-Development-pf (pdf)

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More Resources to Download

Resources to help heal.

Am-I-Co-Dependent-(CODA) brochure (pdf)

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Creating-secure-attachment-tips (pdf)

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People Pleasing (pdf)

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NICABM-Managing Stress and Anxiety (pdf)

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NICABM-Overcoming-Anxiety- (pdf)

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NICABM-Window Of Tolerance (pdf)

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“Repeated states become traits.”


Dan Siegel, MD

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